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Originally posted by Rednano:
alternatively, tell B straight in the face abt u, A, and B.
then, tell A straight in the face abt u, A, and B.
see which guy still wants u. then take him.
u choose people, people also have the right to choose u or not.what is there to tell B about A?
what is there to tell A about B?
the two guys didn't even (ahem) hold her hand and you're asking her to tell them long boring story?
don't sabo TS k.
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Nope. Give too much and you're too loaded. Give too little and you're too miserly. Why bother with unnecessary trivalties?
Don't give red packets. Red packets are for seniors and aunties to give lor. You'e 27. buy them a really cool, tasteful gift and save the dilemma.
Edited by soleachip 22 Aug `08, 1:37AM
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Maybe you know it deep inside that A cannot give you what you want? Perhaps A won't respond to you or fall in love with you or give you even a hint of hope? Then move on ba. Usually if guys are interested they'll chase you de. I'm sure your female instincts are already telling you A is a complete waste of time. Trust your gut dear.
Just hang out with B and get to know others, expand your social circle. You don't have to be in a relationship or be answerable to B just because he is showing you some interest. Live a little more. Life is too short to hanker over the what ifs and could have beens.
Edited by soleachip 22 Aug `08, 1:24AM
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Originally posted by sMaLL_tOwn25:
Hi all,
This happen to me all the times.
Whenever I had a bad day, the incident would keep replaying in my mind when I was about to fall alsleepAny ideas how to get rid of this?
Bad day such as arguing with friends/ family, getting scold / nag by boss n so on.
Maybe you're the worrywart/paranoid type. I do that all the time too. Hopefully this helps.
Keep busy
After any crisis, if you want to get over it, it’s important not to let yourself dwell on the negative details of the event, such as how you could have prevented it and why it happened to you. In order to properly move on, you need to find things to do to occupy your time so that you don’t end up wallowing in self-pity, something that is completely counterproductive and only women and children can actually get away with. Instead, do something that requires all of your concentration and ability. Throw yourself into your work if that’s what it takes to keep your mind busy and help you get over it.
Find an outlet
It is healthy to express ourselves; this means laughing when we’re happy and, inevitably, crying when we’re sad. It’s absolutely fundamental to acknowledge your feelings, because it’s a huge part of the healing process. Just make sure you do it in private, because a public breakdown could destroy your reputation.
Don’t take it personally
By recognizing the fact that bad things are a part of life, you’ll minimize the amount of pain and trauma they cause, and this will help you to get over it. It’s something that happens to everyone, and this simple fact should give you some comfort and allow you to see the bigger picture. When you take the “why me” attitude, you’re inflating the significance of the event, thus making it harder to put behind you.
Get out of town for a while
A completely new environment will often help you get your mind off things and make you see things more clearly. Take a trip to a place that’s somewhat dangerous, a place where you have to constantly stay on your guard and keep your wits about you. This will allow you to get over things quicker by putting it all into perspective and reminding you that, despite all the bullsh*t, life goes on.
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Let's see what SC members want to achieve before they hit the next benchmark. I'll start. Before 30 I'd like to...
Get certified by the time I'm 26.
Get a bike license by the time I'm 27.
Get certified again by the time I'm 28.
Hold an exhibition by the time I'm 29.
Go to south america by the time I'm 30.
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Originally posted by the Bear:
this is literally, shit...
=> Giant Inflatable Shit causes havoc in Swiss Town
and the "art work" is aptly called "Complete Shit"
This one takes the cake.
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Originally posted by stellazio:
yar la.. we sitll have weekends..thats the good thing..kinda lucky to get into the airforce i guess..
your carpark always run out of lots?man.. i would rather walk then take a 50 dollar summon each time..even flagging a cab to fetch you back to your house from the next carpark seems so much more worth it.
Explored the other car park liao. I'm swearing off the double yellow line for a month.
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